Mr. Answer Man Says: Approval, approval, approval.

And you thought it was going to be hard! Nothing will motivate a guy to reciprocate affection like approval. It's hard to overstate this. Approval is what he wants the most, inside his deepest, little-boy self, and when he gets it -- lots of it -- his hard wiring will have him giving back to you in spades. So, whether you want cuddling, compliments or a night on the town, here are five suggestions to get things started.

1. Come on to him. Guys experience consent as approval; it's why some of us are such hounds. When you come on to him, it's super-approval.

2. Pay compliments. So easy. Let me get you started:

• Nice pants!
• You're strong!
• How come you're such a good kisser?
• I love your (body part of choice).
• What a good idea!

You get the point. Don't wait for the right moment. Throw these things at him out of a clear blue sky.