As a woman whose job entails writing about, analyzing and researching sex, some men find me intimidating. More specifically it's their penises that seem to find me intimidating. Often they won't even come out and introduce themselves until I've been seeing their owner for quite a while. Unlike most women, I'm accustomed to this issue. So, not only do I not take it personally; I also know that, the less fuss you make about erection problems, the quicker they're solved. But, besides just playing it cool, there are many other things you can do to help out your guy through this uncomfortable situation and others - from Erectile Dysfunction to Premature Ejaculation to the men who last too long. Read on.

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He seems uninterested.

The problem:

Because most men believe that a permanent, raging erection is a sign of “being a man,” it can feel emasculating and confusing when, for example, seeing your breasts doesn't make him instantly want to have sex with you. But don't dive in right away with the third degree of “What's wrong?” questioning; he'll be sensitive about it. What will be effective, however, is waiting until you're both in good moods and saying, “Honey, I've noticed you don't want sex as often as you used to. Are you feeling stressed at the moment? I love/d our sex life and I miss it.” This is a non-judgemental way to start up a real conversation, and it's relatively easy to take it from there. Vow to listen properly and don't take any of it personally. Repeat back in your own words what he says to you to ensure there's no confusion.