On one hand, I write this article from a selfish standpoint. The more women who are out there giving oral sex with confidence, the better chance I stand at getting it. On the other hand, I am doing this to help women who are too shy to ask and want to feel more confident with their sexual skills. While some women will see this as merely a refresher course in the basics, many others will enjoy putting this advice (not the kind you get from a friend) to good use. Okay, ready? Read on.

1. The mental game
We all know that sex and orgasms are 90% mental, even for men, so your mindset and the impression you give your boyfriend must be, "I love your penis and I love giving you head." Seems simple enough, but this first step is usually the downfall of most women. If you give the impression that giving oral sex is a chore, a favor, or in some way not pleasurable for you, it takes so much away from the experience. If he thinks, "She wants me in her mouth," you've got him. This is where he has to be mentally, and you have to get him there, no matter how much you have to act. Dirty talk doesn't hurt either.