Every bedroom should contain a "treasure chest" (lockable if you've got children around) containing your own spicy set of pleasure and foreplay enhancers. The following should be readily available:
1) Lubricants and massage oils. If you're using condoms use only water-based types. Oil-based lubes can damage condoms. Also, be careful to avoid getting any oil inside the vagina. This may cause irritation.
2) Sex toys you enjoy.
3) A blindfold
4) Erotica to read to each other or films you find stimulating.
5) Stockings or soft ties for bondage play and a pair of handcuffs.
6) A feather or "brush" for playful touching.
7) Little sexy surprises for your lover. A silky thong, some surprise stockings, fun chocolates or "love dice."
8) Dental dams, plastic wrap, and condoms for safer sex. Don't forget some latex gloves for sensual stimulation of the anal area without scratching your lover with your nails.
9) A box of luxury tissues and/or a soft cloth for "cleaning up."
