You've mastered the sexual basics, and you're ready to up the naughty ante and experiment. But before you introduce the thrill of fantasy to your bedroom, there are three main things you need to know:

How to Suggest It

Plan A: Wait until you're both feeling relaxed and intimate, then say you had an amazingly sexy dream last night. Tell your partner what happened in the dream (which is actually your fantasy) and gauge his reaction. The more detail he asks for, the more interested he is in giving it a go. So take his enthusiasm as your cue to confess it's actually been a fantasy of yours for ages.

Plan B: Rent a film with a scene that features or resembles your fantasy. Watch his face as it's playing. Does he look intrigued or horrified? If he's watching avidly, snuggle up sexily and say, "How hot is this?" If he's joining in and looking at you mischievously, move in for the kill.

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Plan C: Buy your lover a sex book with a fantasy theme as a present. If he's shy, let him read it alone first before asking him to tell you his favorite parts. If he's secure sexually, stick Post-it notes on the pages or pictures that particularly appeal to you.