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Give Him the Finger

This one comes with a warning: Inserting a finger into his rectum during a hand job, usually just before orgasm, will either make him love you forever or decide you're completely crazy. How to find out his response ahead of time? Simply ask him if he'd like to try it, or start playing around the rim of his anus and gauge his reaction. If he seems nervous ‑- and you feel brave ‑- tell him he could be in for the orgasm of his life. Like the clitoris, the root of the penis extends a few inches into his body. Stimulating the perineum or anus massages the inner section ‑- but the true pleasure spot lies about three inches in. This is the prostate gland ‑- nicknamed the male G-spot. To find it (and map its position for future reference), get him to lie on his back as you gently insert your very well lubricated index finger, palm up, about three-quarters of the way in. Aim toward his navel, then curve your finger in a "come here" gesture.