In the book He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys, Sex and the City staffers Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo say there's no need to analyze male behavior in dating. Their theory? A guy is interested or he's not -- and if he is, there's no confusion. But is it so black and white? Or do extenuating circumstances and legitimate excuses exist? Read these two examples of Greg's take on sticky relationship situations and share your opinion on whether the advice is based on truth or just plain cynicism:


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To: "Why do guys run away"
I'm going to make your life a hell of a lot easier. it's found in: "Why Men Love Bitches". My friends, and everyone I know no refer to it as, "the bible". trust me, read it.
--Posted by anonymous

Love - Can't live with it, cant live without it
My girlfriend was looking for this book in the store on tape. I just read it and found what the book is about. Talk about confusion! So, I have come to the conclusion that she is looking for "the one". What does that mean for me? I know. I love her very much. So I am going to give it to her as a present. Hope it helps her because I don't think it is helping me. What can I say, I love her and her happiness is what I want her to have, with me or without! Check please!
--Posted by - I don't know what to do, Huntington Beach, CA

Men are people are they are not really complicated. Well, I can say that because I grew up surrounded by guys and I can relate better with guys than girls. That's how I had always avoided wrong guys from the very start; before the start of the very first date.
--Posted by Joyce, Arecibo, PR

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I don't like this book
This book is totally stupid. Hey, they are treating men like they were from another planet and/or they were a totally different specie rather than just human beings like us.
--Posted by Joyce, Arecibo, PR

Why do guys run away?
seriously, My boyfriend was always self centered. I did all the calling he could not take the time to call me. We were together 8 months he lost his job, flipped out and got mad because I called him like 5 times. He wouldnt return my call. then he broke up with me. Why would you throw away a perfectly good relationship with someone you "LOVE"? Because I was worried about him and called to much? Wouldnt it be more mature to just txt back and say I am fine got ur msg, dont feel like talking today.?? We havent talked in 6 weeks.Is there something in that book about that?
--Posted by Confused in Indy, indy
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