In the book He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth
to Understanding Guys, Sex and the City staffers
Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo say there's no need to analyze male
behavior in dating. Their theory? A guy is interested or he's not
- The Age-Old "I'm Just Not Ready" Excuse
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The "Maybe He Doesn't Want to Ruin the Friendship"
Excuse
Reprinted with permission from He's Just Not That into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys. Copyright © 2004 by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo. Used with permission from Simon Spotlight Entertainment, an imprint of Simon & Schuster.
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When he has a gf
Okay, those two articles were very true. But say u met a guy who told u he was in a relationship, who realised u have a crush on him, decides to chase after u to a couple of areas of an open recreational area half naked, only to run away from u with his friends once u show interst, and then never come back. Is it possible that the desire was there but the responsible side took over as well as his realisation that he needs to be faithful to his gf. Is it possible that the man could still have desires for me whilst being with the other woman. Or does the fact that he never came back say that he forgot about me straight away.
--Posted by Abby, Adelaide
Okay, those two articles were very true. But say u met a guy who told u he was in a relationship, who realised u have a crush on him, decides to chase after u to a couple of areas of an open recreational area half naked, only to run away from u with his friends once u show interst, and then never come back. Is it possible that the desire was there but the responsible side took over as well as his realisation that he needs to be faithful to his gf. Is it possible that the man could still have desires for me whilst being with the other woman. Or does the fact that he never came back say that he forgot about me straight away.
--Posted by Abby, Adelaide


