In the book He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys, Sex and the City staffers Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo say there's no need to analyze male behavior in dating. Their theory? A guy is interested or he's not -- and if he is, there's no confusion. But is it so black and white? Or do extenuating circumstances and legitimate excuses exist? Read these two examples of Greg's take on sticky relationship situations and share your opinion on whether the advice is based on truth or just plain cynicism:


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When he has a gf
Okay, those two articles were very true. But say u met a guy who told u he was in a relationship, who realised u have a crush on him, decides to chase after u to a couple of areas of an open recreational area half naked, only to run away from u with his friends once u show interst, and then never come back. Is it possible that the desire was there but the responsible side took over as well as his realisation that he needs to be faithful to his gf. Is it possible that the man could still have desires for me whilst being with the other woman. Or does the fact that he never came back say that he forgot about me straight away.
--Posted by Abby, Adelaide
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