by Victoria Loustalot

Former New York Governor Eliot Spitzer's repeated dalliances with prostitutes made headlines across the country. His successor David Paterson and Paterson's wife have also admitted to extramarital affairs. If you discovered your partner was cheating on you, how would you respond? Read on to find out what other iVillagers had to say and to share your own two cents.

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