You know the old joke: Santa Claus, the perfect woman, the perfect man and the Tooth Fairy get into a car accident -- who survives? Answer: The perfect woman, because the other three don't exist. But is that really fair? Some of us have known men who are nearly perfect (or at least think they are). As member Beckie writes, "I think all women have a preconceived notion of who Mr. Right is. For me, it was the man I just married last April. This is my third marriage, but the one that will last a lifetime."

For others, Mr. Right is still missing in action. "At thirty-seven I still have not found what I'm looking for. Just finding the perfect date let alone perfect Mr. Right has gotten impossible," writes Mary.

Whether you've found your prince charming or are still searching for "the one," you know what it takes to make your mind, body and soul scream, "I'm in love!" In fact, you sent us long lists filled with qualities YOU need in a man to make your dreams come true. Here (in no particular order) are the top 15 qualities of Mr. iVillage!

Men, read carefully and don't forget to take notes!