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5. Planes & Trains (but No Automobiles)
True, airports are a hassle these days, but all that hustling and bustling can actually be a breeding ground for, well, breeding! It's even possible to bond over bad service. Says Monica Hildebrand, a Texas marketing executive, "I met a great guy [on an airplane] traveling from Dallas to New York last fall. I've also met quite a few interesting men traversing Europe via rail. It's all about attitude and a healthy dose of confidence." It doesn't have to be a long trip. Countless couples have hooked up riding the subway or bus to work. Score one for public transportation.
6. Music Lovers
To quote Shakespeare, "If music be the food of love, play on." No wonder concerts are packed with male patrons. L. Ann Carlson from Minneapolis, Minnesota, took this tip even further. She moonlighted as a security guard at the Target Center, where many big events are held. "Not only have I been able to see great shows for free while being paid," she says, "I've met musicians and performers including Usher and Chicago, as well as great-looking fans." Not ready to make meeting men a second job? Love of music brought Amy Tenner and her now fiancé to a record store at the same moment. The Pennsylvania banker laughs, "We bonded over Sting."
7. Cyber-Networking
Online dating is more mainstream than ever-- and it's even taking cool new strides with video chat. Sites such as Attract One can accommodate up to 16 users in each video chat room. All you need is the latest version of Flash, a DSL or cable connection and a recent browser -- and some sites even offer to send you a free Web cam to get started.
The Internet is also a fabulous tool to find a man in a six-degrees-of-separation sort of way. There are a burgeoning number of Websites where you can find friends, business contacts and activity partners-- all of which can lead to love. Perhaps the most popular is Craig's List. This electronic bulletin board for every major city has areas to post and respond to requests for hairstylists, fling partners, employees, movie buddies and more. On Friendster.com, you post a profile and photo, and then get connected through the social-networking software to your friends, their friends and their friends' friends! Women recycle exes and offer up platonic male friends on Great Boyfriends, while, for a fee, Social Circles arranges cool activities for strangers who quickly become friends.
8. Play Ball
Here's a statement that no football widow will contest: Men love sports. Does your community have a local softball team you can join? Or perhaps it's another sport that gets you to don your sneaks and sweats. Tori Pugliese's passion is a local running club. The New Yorker explains, "It's a good way to get in shape and meet an interesting guy. Before the run is warm-up time. After the run, everyone's cooling down and talking about the run."
Not a jock? Not a problem. You can meet men while watching them play, by going to games in stadiums both big and small. Tammy Filler calls the soccer fields in her neighborhood, "the new singles bars-- at least for single fathers." The Seattle-based divorcee says, "On Saturday mornings I head over with a friend or grab a niece or nephew. It's a relaxed, casual atmosphere and no designer clothes or shoes are needed."
9. Dinner Is Served
Here's an idea for the single who's hungry for good food and even better dinner companions. Clubs around the country such as Eight at Eight, Table for Eight and Dinner at Eight set up dinner parties of four single men and four single women who share similar backgrounds and interests. If love doesn't bloom, at least you'll have had a great meal.
6. Music Lovers
To quote Shakespeare, "If music be the food of love, play on." No wonder concerts are packed with male patrons. L. Ann Carlson from Minneapolis, Minnesota, took this tip even further. She moonlighted as a security guard at the Target Center, where many big events are held. "Not only have I been able to see great shows for free while being paid," she says, "I've met musicians and performers including Usher and Chicago, as well as great-looking fans." Not ready to make meeting men a second job? Love of music brought Amy Tenner and her now fiancé to a record store at the same moment. The Pennsylvania banker laughs, "We bonded over Sting."
7. Cyber-Networking
Online dating is more mainstream than ever
The Internet is also a fabulous tool to find a man in a six-degrees-of-separation sort of way. There are a burgeoning number of Websites where you can find friends, business contacts and activity partners
8. Play Ball
Here's a statement that no football widow will contest: Men love sports. Does your community have a local softball team you can join? Or perhaps it's another sport that gets you to don your sneaks and sweats. Tori Pugliese's passion is a local running club. The New Yorker explains, "It's a good way to get in shape and meet an interesting guy. Before the run is warm-up time. After the run, everyone's cooling down and talking about the run."
Not a jock? Not a problem. You can meet men while watching them play, by going to games in stadiums both big and small. Tammy Filler calls the soccer fields in her neighborhood, "the new singles bars
9. Dinner Is Served
Here's an idea for the single who's hungry for good food and even better dinner companions. Clubs around the country such as Eight at Eight, Table for Eight and Dinner at Eight set up dinner parties of four single men and four single women who share similar backgrounds and interests. If love doesn't bloom, at least you'll have had a great meal.
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